You can say what you want about me but I just want three things to be perfectly clear.
- I will not let you say anything negative about anyone other than me. This includes my family, friends, and romantic partners.
- We are equally to blame here and I’m sorry for anything I did wrong/ you feel i did wrong.
- I will not let you continue to use things I told you in confidence about my mental instability be made public and cause me to have panic attacks about leaving my house. These were private things and I feel they should remain so.
If that’s too hard for you, then I’m sorry. Break ups suck but we are adults. Let’s handle this like such. Because I will not let you control my emotions anymore, and I will not tolerate any further harassment.